Living Wake? Funeral? Memorial? I believe the most significant ceremonies are the ones where stories are told and shared. Should you choose me to be your Celebrant, I promise to deeply listen to you as you share those stories - the joyful ones and the tougher ones. Because life isn't always easy. And I will guide you. Encourage you to be creative (after all, ceremony is about the 'essence of the person'. And my role is to gently and calmly allow you to just take a breath. Pause. Remember. And just be present. Because we know that whatever the ceremony, that there is definitely elements of loss and sadness in the mix. And you don't need to have to worry about any of the logistics and technical aspects on the day. That's my job. Along with others I work with on the day. So, feel free to send me and email, or connect on my website ("contact me") or on the phone, and I'd be honoured to see how I might be able to support you. Look after you along the way.

The Shifting Sands

The tide comes in
The tide goes out
And as the water gently laps on the sand,
the sand moves…
never to be in the same place again.
And with each breath we take,
Our lives too will never be ‘in the same place’ ever again.
This brings with it a tide of change
And we either move with the change
Or choose to submerge and eventually drown.
Our hearts weep for what was had,
Foolish to think that things could stay the same…
But just like the sea and sand,
Nothing ever stays the same and
like the gentle ebb of the tide
We too must learn to be calm and still
and find peace and tranquillity once more…

Written by Jacqui Williams (2015)

In a time of pure grief with losing a loved one, Jacqui was a rock, providing genuine over and beyond compassion and support… A heartfelt eulogy to be remembered by all as she touched and comforted so many. You delivered the service beautifully.

Hello Jacqui... I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you did. I could not have done this without you. You are such a special person. Thank you again for everything.

Dear Jacqui, many thanks indeed for your extraordinarily thoughtful and caring Eulogy for the funeral of my dear late brother. It surely couldn't have been composed with more empathy or sincerity. It seems I now have met someone new with a big heart like my brother.

Jacqui is just amazing. She has been helping, guiding and supporting me through the loss of my husband in a way that is kind, considerate, caring and unobtrusive. Her End of Life Doula work with those who are grieving is so important. What particularly impresses me about Jacqui is that she sees what she does as a privilege. It is not a job to her but a true calling. I count myself very lucky to have had her guidance and expertise in this difficult time in my life. I would strongly recommend Jacqui to anyone nearing the end of their lives and to their families. Her kindness and compassion will be of great value. 

Thank you Jacqui. Everyone loved the ceremony. So many people complimented it saying it was wonderful. That was such a relief to me..I thought it was a loving tribute and thank you for bringing it together. We certainly could not have done it without you.

Dear Jacqui, Your warmth, gentle spirit and thoughtful words made it a very special occasion. My mother who was watching the live stream said to me afterwards that she had never attended a funeral where the celebrant had such an understanding of the person who had passed. Thank you for all the care and sensitivity you put into your words, and for creating such a special send off for [“A”]. It is a day that I will always remember. Thank you again.

You delivered the service beautifully.